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#153 This brain-hack will get you what you want

#153 This brain-hack will get you what you want

FromWhat I Love About Sex


#153 This brain-hack will get you what you want

FromWhat I Love About Sex

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Length:
29 minutes
Released:
Feb 18, 2020
Format:
Podcast episode

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Do you want to know the main cause of all the stress and uncertainty in your life?Your mindset. I was just talking to one of my clients today about the Reticular Activating System in our brains. The job of our “RAS” is to manage our focus. Because let’s be real... if we were to focus on EVERYTHING at once, our brains would probably explode (lol). So the RAS is a protective, filter mechanism designed by your neurological wiring, which is designed by you. And let’s take “confirmation bias” into account, which is the concept of placing most of your attention on what you believe most to be true.So to tie all of this together, this would mean that you get in life what you focus on most and you are in control of what you focus on, by way of your Reticular Activating System. So now you’re probably thinking, “Ok, well how do I reprogram my RAS so that I start focusing my mind on what I want, instead of all of the blandness/stressors/uncertainties in my life?” And the answer is repetition of feeling and visualizing what you want.Think of how any physical habit is formed. You need to repeatedly do it, be held accountable to it and talk yourself through it, regardless of how you might feel in that moment. Same goes for creating a healthy, productive and positive mindset. It’s putting yourself in the physical state of how it would feel to attain this goal and the mental vision of what it would look like to actually possess this goal- over and over again. Have this meditation twice/day until your RAS says “Ok, this is obviously important. I’m going to take it out of the filtered, so he starts becoming more aware of this specific thing in his day to day life”.Train your mind to see what you want in life. Because what you can see and feel, you can ultimately have.:) Schedule your 30 minute complimentary call with me here!!!https://www.stephanieganowski.com/contactInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/steph.g.9YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiCp3BxQ_pz4-tQRZQCd6sw/videos?view_as=subscriber
Released:
Feb 18, 2020
Format:
Podcast episode

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Stephanie Ganowski is a clinical sexologist and sex coach for men. In her podcast, “What I Love About Sex”, her mission is to take the pressure out of sex and put the pleasure in! She does this by helping men overcome their d*ck-related issues and improve their sex communication skills, so they can feel in control of their bodies and connecting deeply with their partners. Coaching clients 1:1 for 6+ years, with a background in psychology, relationship communication training and clinical sexology makes Stephanie the person you can trust to help you. She especially wants men to have a ‘go-to’ place for help here, so they feel they’re directly spoken to and supported. Stephanie is a firm believer that sex is like any other part of life in that we need to work to understand and improve it through practice, vulnerability and patience. And if we can do that while having fun and not taking ourselves so seriously, we can create the sex life we’ve always dreamed of.Stephanie’s style of coaching (and podcasting) is lighthearted, fun and action oriented. Her aim is to have her listeners leave her show feeling confident in what step to take next!