From The Vault: Advice, Three Years or so After My First Wedding

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From The Vault: Advice, Three Years or so After My First Wedding

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Nov 10, 2023

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This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit ismatu.substack.comAn essay from The Vault on how miraculously pain steals language. CW: mentions of self-harm.

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Nov 10, 2023

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The pieces of my world-making I stitch together into a quilt: love studies. Black feminism. Other things binding me together at the seams. Cozy up and pour some tea. ismatu.substack.com

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From The Vault: Advice, Three Years or so After My First Wedding

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