Self-Esteem vs Other Dependent-Esteem is what Patricia Noll is all about. In this episode we hear two stories that prove to her that life after death is real. Patricia is an author, speaker and substance abuse program founder, who empowers people to experience real long-lasting happiness comes from the "inside out" by changing the way they see themselves.  She is the author of the  new book titled: "Good With Me: A Simple Approach to Real Happiness from the Inside Out"  introduces the concept  that we don't just have self-esteem but also "other dependent esteem" which is really at the root of unhappiness, discontent, addiction, anger, rage, violence, bullying, criminal behavior, and suicide. Hear our conversation about the 4 attachments that run us on a daily basis and why we are unhappy so much! There are some things we can do to reprogram our thinking, leading to good feelings that lead to us taking action and having results! You'll like Patricia Noll. You may want a notebook, I took a lot of notes in this episode.