Dear Writer,



It’s easy to freeze up when we’re writing for the faceless masses or the random reader who happens upon our words.



What do we say to all those people? How can we speak with heart to a total stranger?



Next thing you know, we second-guess our ideas, our prose, our very selves. We fade to beige without saying what we really think, without being specific, without our signature wit and whimsy. 



What would that random person who doesn’t even know me think if I crack a joke?



We lose our creativity, our passion, our joy.



We freeze. We get stuck. 



We’re afraid to stand out, so we play it safe. We write dull, ordinary prose that could be penned by anyone at all, even ChatGPT.



Unlock Your Creative Voice: Write a Letter to Your Reader



One way to unlock creativity is to write a letter—a letter to your reader.



And not just any nameless, faceless reader but a specific person you actually know.



Dear Anthony…



Dear Paula…



Dear Lissa…



When you think of the kind of person you’re trying to reach with your words, does Lissa fit?



Good. 



Now, write her a letter about a question or struggle that she herself has voiced. 



Weave in ideas that can help. 



Encourage her with a vulnerable story.



Add a little pizzazz that only you can include—after all, she knows you. She’ll grin at your joke and “get” your allusion.



When you’re done, you can send her the note, if you want.



Or you can cross out Lissa’s name and replace it with the type of person you write for:



Dear Weary Homeschool Mom…



Dear New Gardener…



Dear Journaler…



If that feels awkward to publish, cross off the salutation altogether. 



Dear Anthony…



Dear Paula…



Dear Lissa…



I’ll bet you can find a great hook in your opening lines, and the letter-writing trick disarmed you enough to write fresh and real and personable.



Writing a Letter to Your Reader Frees Your Natural Voice



From the writer’s perspective, writing a letter to your reader can remove that feeling of writing to the faceless masses and instead invite an easy tone and thoughts that convey empathy and intimacy.



J. Willis Westlake, author of an 1800s book about letter-writing, says:




In other [writing] productions there is the restraint induced by the feeling that a thousand eyes are peering over the writer’s shoulder and scrutinizing every word; while letters are written when the mind is as it were in dressing-gown and slippers — free, natural, active, perfectly at home, and with all the fountains of fancy, wit, and sentiment in full play.1




By tricking your mind into donning its dressing-gown and slippers, you can achieve that “free, natural, active, perfectly at home” tone, style, and voice. Your readers will love reading your “fancy, wit, and sentiment in full play.”



Genuine Letters Contain Our Most Interesting Content



And it’s not just our style, tone, and voice that letters unleash; it’s also the content itself.



Westlake continues, “Though written, as all genuine letters are, for the private eye of one or two familiar friends, and without any thought of their publication, they nevertheless often form the most interesting and imperishable of an author’s productions.”2



In other words, these letters contain our “most interesting and imperishable” ideas. So why not write them as letters first?



Discover Epistolary Writing



This letter-writing format is labeled “epistolary” writing. And the epistolary approach is used more widely in published work than you might be thinking. For example, advice columns.



Advice Columns



Advice columns like the classic “Dear Abby” and more recent “Dear Sugar” dished out empathetic responses that addressed specific needs that were sent in from readers.



The writer connected directly with the recipient who asked the initial question and with every reader who “listened in.”



Epistolary Nonfiction Books



Then there are nonfiction epistolary books,