For author Clarissa Moll, hiring a writing coach was like finding her book midwife, and she urges writers to seek that kind of intimate, knowledgeable support and input for their own writing and publishing journey.



In this interview, Clarissa shares her approach to writing, platform, and publishing, like:



make a list of 10 things whenever you're stuck or developing an ideasay “Yes” before you’re readypitch publications as a core platform-building activityauthentically engage with readers—she's committed to building connections and offering support



Listen to episode 242 and check out excerpts below. You'll be inspired by her clear, sensible, inspiring personality and advice.







Clarissa Moll is an author and podcaster and the young widow of author Rob Moll. Clarissa's writing has appeared in Christianity Today, The Gospel Coalition, RELEVANT, Modern Loss, Grief Digest, and more. Her debut book, Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Living with Grief and Thriving After Loss is forthcoming from Tyndale (2022).



Clarissa co-hosts Christianity Today's "Surprised by Grief" podcast and hosts the weekly hope*writers podcast, The Writerly Life. She lives a joyful life with her four children and rescue pup and proudly calls both New England the Pacific Northwest home.







Interview Highlights



Enjoy these highlights from Clarissa's interview.



Find Your Book Midwife



As folks in my life kept saying to me, "You should write a book!" I thought, I don't even know where to start.



I mean, I can write a five-paragraph essay. I can write a thesis. But to write 55,000 words? It seemed like an elephant that was too big to swallow.



I knew that to do it well, in a way that was sustainable in my own life, I needed to make sure that I was having a meaningful life outside of my writing.



And I knew if I wanted to do this again—if I didn't want to end at the finish line so exhausted that I said, "No more. This is it."—I knew I needed some guidance.



And so I reached out to you.



I gave birth to my four babies with a midwife, and when you're in that delivery room, that baby feels like the only one that's ever been born. And isn't it wonderful to have a midwife stand beside you, who's seen hundreds of delivered, to say, "This is normal. You're doing great!" To be able to offer that encouragement and guidance along the way.



And so I found in you my book midwife. You're the person who helped me to make that journey from just a nebulous kind of idea to something that's really concrete.







Make a List of 10 Things



One of the exercises that I have gone back to time and time again is one that we did together.



You encouraged me to write a list of 10 things. And if I struggled with making my list of 10, I had to write another 10.



When you're out of ideas, just force yourself to put pen to paper. That's where clarity is born.



It's not born in the writer's retreat over a long weekend or at a cabin by the lake. It's born out of those very ordinary, disciplined kind of practices that you taught me.







Say "Yes" Before You're Ready



Back in my acting days, I had an audition and the acting professor said, "Could you do an Irish accent for this audition?"



I said, "Oh, I don't know how to do that. I'm sorry." And nothing ever came of it.



A couple of weeks later, he came to me and said, "You know, I wanted to give you that role, but you said you couldn't do it. Next time, say 'I'll learn how.'"



That kind of perspective has been really helpful for me, as I have said yes to things that are beyond whatever I have done before.



Had I podcasted before? No.



But when someone invited me to do the Christianity Today podcast, I said, "I'll learn how. I'll get the equipment. I'll learn how to do the technology. I will do it."



Check Your Heart



I've been trying to think about what other things I could do that relate to my writing.



Should I build in speaking more?