In Episode 98, we sit down with special guest Aja of Chokes and Gags. Antoinette shares her preparation for her new job, Shanti talks waves of sadness, while Aja embarks on a new baking business. Together, we discuss the weight of how polarized the US has become with fear of civil war and the protection (or lack there of) of Black women. For our main topic, Aja shares her journey of exploring sex + pleasure on her terms regardless of a history abuse and ridicule. Join us...To learn more about Aja follow her on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/chokesngags/Follow Aja: IG: @Chokesngags & @ChokingHazardKitchen Website: https://www.tumblr.com/tagged/chokesngags Twitter: https://twitter.com/chokesngags Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ask-aja/id1181318401Interested in sexual exploration? Visit Fetlife.comContact Us:IG: @aroundthewaycurlsPhone: (215) 948-2780Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.comPatreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurlsPurchase Summer Walker's "Girls Need Love" here https://music.apple.com/us/album/girls-need-love/1438765128?i=1438765134This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/4167099/advertisement