In episode 57, Antoinette prepares herself for a white Thanksgiving while Shanti's only update is a new winter jacket. Together we share our love for Ryan Gosling and dive head-first into Shanti's recent disagreement with her mother about love. Provoked by the incident and inspired by Esther, we share our answers to Dr. Perel's questions about love beginning with "How did you learn to love"...Listen to Esther Perel's "Where Should We Begin?" here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel/id1237931798Buy Mary J Blige here: https://music.apple.com/us/album/therapy/1440851006?i=1440851216This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/4167099/advertisement