Be ambitiously curious about your spouse. Dr. Jason Karampatsos is the lead pastor of New Life Assembly of God in Janesville, Wisconsin, the co-founder of the City of Refuge Counseling Network and the author of The Elephant in the Marriage. As an ordained minister and a licensed counselor with a Ph.D. in pastoral counseling, he helps men navigate both spiritual and mental health challenges.  He writes extensively on the impact of perspectives and perceptions upon everyday realities and especially upon marriages. He is an active speaker for men’s conferences, marriage retreats and workshops, and speaks to pastors and churches across the country on how to thrive in their relationships.  Boots on the Ground Moment: Sit down with your wife and listen to her, to discover one new nugget about her.     of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters