Breaking news my love: the world doesn’t owe you love. It actually doesn’t owe you a goddamn thing. If you’re sitting there blaming the universe for your problems in life or relationships, and figure that one day, one magical“huh, I guess we’re done fucking with her, time to give her the man of her dreams and a fantastic, fullfilled life to go with it,” …let me know how that goes. After you get back from nowhere, maybe have a listen to episode 56 of the UnF*ck Your Relationships Podcast to hear more about: Healthy expectations in relationships How to stop blaming everyone else Where to start in terms of doing the work  Just where do you get off having all these entitled fantasies of how life is supposed to be, when you aren’t willing to stop and evaluate the part you play in keeping yourself blocked? You do it, don’t deny it; it’s not up to anyone but you. You have all the control, you hold all the emotional cards. So get in the fucking game.   Join my signature 12-week program, The Connected Woman. If you’re ready to make sure that you are confident to meet others’ needs and have your own met in your next relationship sign up here: https://michellepanning.com/the-connected-woman   Or maybe you want some one on one action? Try out The Intimate Woman for some private coaching realness: https://michellepanning.com/the-intimate-woman     CONNECT WITH MICHELLE:   Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanning   Website: http://www.michellepanning.com