When giving advice to loved ones, the temptation is to just tell them what they want to hear. But that's not useful. The key is telling them what they need to hear, in the way they want to hear it. But how do you do that? Nicole thinks it comes down to love languages. To test this theory, Jason and Nicole chat with the person dearest to Jason: his wife, Jen Miller.
Find more of Jen's work, including her fantastic new book Rising Class, here: http://www.byjennifermiller.com/#/rising-class/ 
For the sketch video Nicole mentioned, click here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
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