Episode 264: Pleasure Principle

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Episode 264: Pleasure Principle

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Jun 2, 2023

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Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about the practice of eye-gazing, ways they find themselves being performative during sex, and how Himeros.tv's models balance performance and authenticity on a porn shoot.

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Jun 2, 2023

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Hosted by Davey Wavey and based on the popular erotic website Himeros.tv, this is a fun, juicy version of the gay sex ed class you never had growing up. Join Davey and friends while we talk about gay sex!

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Episode 220: Step Bro'ing: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about incest, requirements for attraction, the controversial nature of tattoos, and Duane and Davey's upcoming trip to Wales (Are they staying in a... by Himeros Backstage
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