Episode 296: Thrall

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Episode 296: Thrall

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Jan 13, 2024

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Creator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.

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Jan 13, 2024

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Hosted by Davey Wavey and based on the popular erotic website Himeros.tv, this is a fun, juicy version of the gay sex ed class you never had growing up. Join Davey and friends while we talk about gay sex!

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Episode 219: Orgasmic Firebreath: creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist in a conversation about their recurring dreams, sex and creativity, ecstatic sex and common fantasies. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 208: Mountain "Top": creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn and writer and journalist in a conversation about Roe V. Wade, some big moves, sex outside, men who need to get f*cked in the ass and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729... by Himeros Backstage
57 min listen
Episode 210: Ares: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about gay TV shows, daddies, internalized homophobia during sex, the Ares archetype and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729 by Himeros Backstage
53 min listen
Episode 211: Fame Animals: creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist in a conversation about fame, authenticity, persona curation, OnlyFans... and, of course, Downton Abbey. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729 by Himeros Backstage
64 min listen
Episode 207: Joyfriend Material: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about Davey and Duane's trip to Vegas, the importance of having honest and vulnerable conversations, and how shame manifests itself in sex. Leave us... by Himeros Backstage
58 min listen
Episode 229: Nontoxic Masculinity: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about Finn's new boyfriend, Himeros.tv's Sean Cody parody, their first porn experiences, paying for sex and more! by Himeros Backstage
57 min listen
Episode 215: Selfcest: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach in a conversation about Finn's road trip, the Minnesota shoot, having sex with one's own self, obstacles to self love and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729 by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 212: I See You: creator Davey Wavey is joined by adult model in a conversation about people being seen, being unseen, furries and more! Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729 by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 222: LIVE from London with Leander and Jake London - Trans Body Pleasure: creator Davey Wavey is joined by porn stars Leander and Jake London in a conversation about faking orgasms, sex with trans men, Jake's first porn shoot and more! by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 221: Apollo: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist in a conversation about the Himeros film shoot in Wales, their go-to sex tactics and routines, watching yourself have sex and more. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 213: Rough Oral: creator Davey Wavey is joined by adult model in a conversation about celebrities that they want to have sex with, masturbation while in a relationship, rough oral sex, being a dom or sub and more. Leave us questions and comments at 612-470-5729 by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 214: Jonah Wheeler Joins + Transguys in Sweatpants: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by porn star Jonah Wheeler in a conversation about clothes that turn them on, newly discovered kinks that surprised them, the start of Jonah's career and having sex with trans men. Leave us questions and comments at... by Himeros Backstage
52 min listen
Episode 216: Mass: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by bestselling author Kyle Langan in a conversation about spirituality and sex, religion, sex workers and life in West Hollywood. Kyle is an award-winning blogger, and founder of the lifestyle website, . His latest... by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 242: Adam & Steve: creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about New Year's resolutions, Mossy's journey into polyamory, what they had to unlearn from their religious upbringings and more! by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 225: Ouroboros: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach in a conversation about things they would like everyone to question about sexuality, zeroing in on individual body parts during sex, hairless balls, and more. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 235: The Windsor Dog Show: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about poppers, pup play, jock straps and other costumes and props they use during sex. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 223: Grand Promise: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach to discuss embarrassing cum stories, being comfortable or uncomfortable with nudity, how we limit ourselves, and more. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 226: Hung On The Cross: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about their changing relationship with religion, faith and homosexuality, why the Church is obsessed with sex, and how hot Jesus is. by Himeros Backstage
55 min listen
Episode 218: I'm the One That I Want: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about setting boundaries, being a better lover to yourself, spitting during sex, and Davey's trip to Sweden. by Himeros Backstage
55 min listen
Episode 217: Spellbound: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about consent, sexual violence, Duane's time in Sweden and more. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 240: Black - Devoured: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about the horrors of cold winters, their earliest experiences of sexuality, childhood conflicts over which they're still seeking mastery,... by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 224: Piss Off: creator Davey Wavey is joined by by sex and intimacy coach and writer in a conversation about giving sex advice, taboo fetishes, unfulfillable fantasies, and why fisting can be a religious experience. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 228: Anima: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach , writer and journalist and pornographer in a conversation about being told to "man up", playing with gender roles in sex, how porn can change us, and the potential for growth in monogamous... by Himeros Backstage
60 min listen
Episode 227: F*ck Olympics: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about trying to be more masculine, masculinity within the gay community, authenticity on Instagram, and more. by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 244: The Invitation: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and porn stars Ethan Chase, AJ Sloan, Jordan Starr, Alex Mecum, Leo Louis, Edward Terrant and Kane. On the set of Himeros.tv's "Seventh Circle" shoot in Germany, they talk about working with... by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 237: F*ck Like Nobody's Watching: Creator of Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unfortunate bowel control incidents, finding a good therapist, breaking the rules to have sex, and what they're thankful for... by Himeros Backstage
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Episode 234: Hera: creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach and writer and journalist in a conversation about the Hera archetype, manifestations of jealousy, and why straight people are boring. by Himeros Backstage
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BONUS: Behind The Scenes - Weird Sex: Journalist interviews gay porn stars Leander, Ethan Chase, Ugo Mason, Jake London, Jake Mason, Dillon Diaz and Jonas Jackson on the set of 's "Weird Sex" film shoot. by Himeros Backstage
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