“Old” is not a bad word. Getting older is not scary. Forget college! 50+ is the real-time of your life! This episode is about to blow up all the preconceived notions you have about getting older. Process guest, Barby White, a member of our wise community, is coming on the podcast to inspire the hell out of every single one of us. When she started unapologetically putting herself first, her life transformed. Barby and Jessica cover topics we’ve never had the chance to discuss on this podcast. How do you transition from being a stay-at-home mom with 3 kids into being an empty nester who finds fulfillment in the role of being a mom? How do you find expanders who are over 50 (and probably not on social media)? How do you navigate the pervasive guilt of motherhood? They even talk about the ways ego may be secretly driving your manifestation, how being over 50 is actually awesome, and how pings can be delivering what seems to be the most mundane message (like: clean out your storage closet!). Everyone of all ages will get deep expansion from this episode. Huge thank you to Barby for opening her world to us! This is a good one, y’all. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast  In This Episode We Talk About:The remarkable manifestation of Pathway and Wise member Barby!How Barby used TBM work to reinvent herself later in lifeHer cultural upbringing and how it informs her viewpoint todayThe transition from raising children to focusing on your own needsPings, tests, breakthroughs!The importance of being realistic with your first manifestationsBarby’s manifestation list & authentic code and how they have evolvedFinding expanders in their 50’s and 60’sThe secret of manifestationBoundaries with family membersThe energetic power of the word “no”Embracing the magic of later chapters in life!Clearing space, navigating regret, valuing timeTBM workshop and DI recommendations from Barby!  THEMES / TIME STAMPS:How Barby discovered TBM and started her manifestation journey (00:14:06)The energetics of focusing on your own needs after raising children (00:35:20)Finding age-appropriate expanders later in life! (01:02:25) Resources: Start Your Manifestation Process with the Pathway Membership? - Use code MANIFEST for $20 off your first month of The Pathway or $20 off any a la carte workshop.Wanna find out why you’re not manifesting? Start our free mini-workshop! BITE Toothpaste Bits - 20% off your first order with code MAGNETICFresh mint toothpaste bits  Beekeeper’s Naturals - 25% off your purchase with code TBMRoyal Jelly Brain FuelExpanded Ep. 137 x Carly Stein of Beekeeper’s Naturals Find all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership!TBM The WiseThe Expanded Podcast: The Process SeriesMelissa Wood HealthExpanded x Ep. 111: Melissa Wood on The Quest To Become EnoughAnne Lamott (author)Start Where You Are: A Journey for Self-Exploration - Meera Lee Patel (book) Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@expandedpodcast@tobemagnetic (youtube)@Jessicaashleygill Other ResourcesSubmit to Be a Process GuestText Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower RemedyTBM Manifestation JournalDid you Finish the Manifestation Challenge? Share your experience with us!