From rock bottom to reaching new levels in both her relationships and career, returning Process guest, Hiwa’s story is a rollercoaster of transformation and authenticity. From relying on the ‘cool girl’ act and relationship games to becoming the most authentic version of herself and manifesting a lasting and loving relationship, Hiwa has truly learned to use her voice and shed old patterns. Join Hiwa and Jess as they delve deep into attachment styles, unearthing patterns that hold us back from our true desires, and uncovering the magic of using our skills and self-worth to bring our dreams to life. And as she looks back on her journey, Hiwa sends a message of love and wisdom to her younger self, celebrating the transformative ride and reflecting on all the DIs and challenges that have helped propel her forward. Consider this your weekly dose of motivation to keep putting in the work and seeking out those empowering and expansive support systems. Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast In This Episode We Talk About:Reflecting on Hiwa’s past relationship behaviors and how she came to understand and transform those patternsHow the work through TBM connected Hiwa to her authentic desiresHiwa’s reflections on passing the one test she didn't want to faceReframing attachment styles as being descriptive and on a spectrum rather than an permanent diagnosisOn finding expanders and tapping into IRL expanders to uplevelHow using her voice in relationships translated into career manifestationsHow Hiwa tracks pings, tests, and triggers and useful ways to use TBM DIs to process and move forwardHow managing physical stress and achieving gut health has helped clear a way for Hiwa’s manifestations coming inHiwa’s message to her past self, and how she learned to love the journey  THEMES / TIME STAMPS:How Hiwa learned that being the “cool girl” and playing games wasn’t yielding the results she wanted in relationships (00:09:40)Viewing attachment styles as a snapshot rather than a diagnosis (00:36:10)Finding expanders and the DIs that have moved the needle for Hiwa (00:58:15) Resources: Get your Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & JessicaNew York SEPT 16th  - SOLD OUTVancouver BC NOV 4th  - more tickets added!Los Angeles DEC 2nd - NEW Venue + more tickets added! Our End of Year SALE is now Live! Lock in the lowest rates of the year and join the Pathway Membership. *For new or returning customers only. Osea - 10% off with TBM10Undaria Collagen Body LotionUndaria Algae Body Oil ARMRA - Use code TBM for 15% offColostrum: Immune Revival - Immune barrier superfood  Ep. 101 - Transforming Heartbreak into Self-Worth & Clarity - The Process with Hiwa AlaghebandianFind our Aligned Action, Rock Bottom, and Inner Child DIs mentioned in this episode inside our Daily Practice Library!Find all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@Lacyannephillips@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast Other ResourcesSubmit to Be a Process GuestText Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower RemedyTBM Manifestation Journal Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryUnblock with us! Wanna find out why you’re not manifesting? Start our free mini- workshop!