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    196. How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin

    196. How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin

    FromWe Can Do Hard Things

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    196. How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin

    FromWe Can Do Hard Things

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    58 minutes
    Released:
    Apr 6, 2023
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    1. How to finally discover what turns us on, how to discuss turn-offs – and how to create “sex menus” with our partners.
    2. The real reason so many of us don’t feel like having sex. 
    3. How to ask for more sex – and how to turn it down without hurting your partner. 
    4. Orgasm – why it’s not the whole shebang – and what to do if we’ve been faking it. 
    5. Glennon and Abby engage in an exercise to practice talking dirty. (Glennon has not recovered.)

    For the first part of our conversation with Vanessa, check out Episode 195: Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin.

    And to hear our original “Silent Sex Queen” episode, go way back and check out: Episode 14: SILENT SEX QUEEN: Why aren’t we talking about sex more?

    About Vanessa: 
    Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin.
    Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve!
    Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker.

    TW: @VMTherapy
    IG: @vanessaandxander

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    Released:
    Apr 6, 2023
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    I’m Glennon Doyle, author of Untamed – the book that was released at the very start of the pandemic and became a lifeline for millions. I watched in awe from my home while this simple phrase from Untamed – WE CAN DO HARD THINGS – the mantra that saved my life twenty years ago, became a worldwide rally cry. Because we experienced the hardship of the pandemic collectively, many of us finally acknowledged what was true before COVID and will be true after: That life is freaking HARD. We are all doing hard things every single day – things like loving and losing caring for children and parents; forging and ending friendships; battling addiction, illness, and loneliness; struggling in our jobs, our marriages, and our divorces; setting boundaries; and fighting for equality, purpose, freedom, joy, and peace. On We Can Do Hard Things, my sister Amanda and I will do the only thing I’ve found that has ever made life easier: We will drop the fake and talk honestly about the hard. Each week we will bring our hard to you and we will ask you to bring your hard to us and we will do what we were all meant to do down here: Help each other carry the hard so we can all live a little bit lighter and braver, more free and less alone.