Johnny Dzubak is a former musician and currently one of the hosts and coaches for The Art of Charm Podcast.  @ArtofCharmTV  ——————————————————— Michael’s Men of Action program is a Master’s course dedicated to helping people elevate their social lives by building elite social circles and becoming higher status. Click the link below to learn more: https://m.moamentoring.com/podcast Join Michael's free MOA group on Skool: https://www.skool.com/men-of-action-free  ———————————————————— Become an affiliate for MOA Mentoring: https://www.moamentoring.com/earn Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MichaelSartain Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-michael-sartain-podcast/id1579791157 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2faAYwvDD9Bvkpwv6umlPO?si=8Q3ak9HnSlKjuChsTXr6YQ&dl_branch=1 Filmed at Sticky Paws Studios: https://m.youtube.com/channel/UComrBVcqGLDs3Ue-yWAft8w  0:00 Intro 0:55 The idea for the podcast 4:03 “The Game” and Neil Strauss 5:07 Growing the podcast 7:26 Crafting the coaching program 12:09 Not having “what if’s” in his life 13:15 Bootcamps were fun and legitimately helpful 13:44 Running the program in New York 14:48 Beginnings of social media and making noise 17:23 Archives of old podcasts with Mystery 18:55 Changing the name to “The Art of Charm” 20:08 Moving to LA 20:55 Pivoting from the pick-up brand 23:53 ***Psychology and self-improvement are not part of pick-up 26:25 *How many times has a woman been approached from puberty to 21 27:11 Women can better sniff out hierarchies 27:48 Sex differences 28:21 *Women also get a vote in the pick-up game 29:21 The nerdy guys didn’t want to hang out with the alpha guys 30:18 ****Having female friends introduce you to other women 34:01 Being friends and sleeping with a woman are mutually exclusive 35:47 **Getting over the friend zone fear 37:02 Girls get you into the VIP 37:48 ****Logistics and the willingness to move 41:10 The podcast becomes popular and mainstream 42:16 **Having Kobe Bryant on the podcast 47:12 Having Neil deGrasse Tyson on the podcast 49:56 ***Nobody looks up the data and the science 53:48 ***Men with higher IQs are less likely to have sex 1:02:25 Having David Goggins on the podcast 1:10:38 **Men need challenges 1:13:08 *As men, the world tells us “no” 1:16:27 Helicopter parents 1:18:22 Messaging people on IG 1:21:08 The Text Book and emojis 1:25:42 Men frustrated by women not rewarding their intellect 1:27:18 How to create an emotional state 1:28:06 The attraction-comfort dichotomy 1:28:38 ***How not to get stuck in the friend zone 1:34:38 Women thinking they’re immune to pre-selection 1:35:39 Quantum Mechanics and body healing 1:37:14 Feminine and masculine energy 1:38:50 **Metabolic health 1:42:30 **Deepening relationships, networking, and friendships 1:46:42 *Networking is an evolutionary adaptation 1:49:55 Sussing out sociopaths 1:52:12 Reading body language 1:54:26 Women sleep with you because of your value, not your intent 1:57:15 Writing to high vs low-status people 1:59:12 **Abundance 2:02:11 The beer goggles study 2:03:04 **Monogamy 2:07:43 ***Polyamory 2:09:47 *Surplus men 2:12:15 Men need to learn to compete 2:13:00 Social media 2:15:44 Challenging your own ideas