In today's episode, I’m joined by the beautiful Psychologist,  Dr Martha Deiros Collado. If you don’t already follow her on instagram, now is the time to start. Her mission is to make the science of psychology accessible to all and support parents to see their child behind the behaviour. She distills big topics into simple ideas and actionable strategies to support you every day, with your family. ?  Dr. Martha sharesAbout compliance vs speaking upThat if we want children to stand up to peer pressure, we need to allow them to question our authority and listen/validate their emotionsWhy children can't self-regulate and how they process emotionsAbout children showing respect and saying please and thank youWhy we should try to avoid watching our children in distressWhat to say instead of 'don’t'About transitioning children to schoolAfter school routines and ritualsAbout parenting as a unique relationship?  Opt In for FREE Downloadables?  Links and ResourcesConnect with Dr. Martha Deiros ColladoWebsiteInstagramThe Confident Parent Course Interested in starting your own nature play business??  Guest DetailsDr Martha is a clinical psychologist and HCPC registered practitioner with over 20 years of clinical and academic experience. She is also a mother of one, a yogi, a runner, and an adventure sports enthusiast.Striving to make the science of psychology accessible to everyone, her growing Instagram community has come to trust the calm, and empathetic way she tackles big subjects - from how to talk about current affairs, death, consent, gender, and sex, as well as the small but critical day to day challenges such as getting children to eat their vegetables and brush their teeth! Martha focuses on our common humanity and the topics that are relevant in the here and now to support parents in building confidence and feel less alone. Martha strongly believes that focusing on the parent-child relationship is the key to effective change, rather than trying to modify children’s behaviour. She hopes that putting her knowledge into the mainstream will get people curious about themselves and their position in the world, help them grow aware of their unconscious biases, and ultimately become more compassionate humans.Wildlings Forest School Contact DetailsWebsiteFacebookInstagram? Did You Enjoy This Episode? If you enjoyed this episode and the Raising Wildlings podcast generally, we have a favour. Please take two minutes to subscribe, and to write a rating and a review. You can do that on Apple Podcasts right now by clicking here. If you are an Android user, you can follow the podcast on Spotify here and Google Podcasts here. Those actions will help the podcast reach more people, and we would be truly grateful. Thank you so much.