It's our two year anniversary, so here's a two-parter! In this month's bonus episode, we're time traveling back to 2012, when a poorly recorded conversation with a personal hero in a diner, in a town with a confusing name, lit the fuse for Mark's exploration of men and connection.

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Special Show Notes:


4:48 - The New York Mills Arts Retreat and Regional Cultural Center

5:00 - Raymond & Lina (Mark's short film)
6:53 - John Porcellino

7:53 - "Pretty personal work by pretty personal folks":

Pryor Convictions by Richard Pryor

Life is Good by Nas

Dirty Plotteby Julie Doucet

Freddy Stories by Melissa Mendes
9:10 - South Beloit Journal by John Porcellino
9:30 - Nora's Place

Mark's video about NY Mills Arts Retreat