In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, interviews Toni Graham of My Blended Chaos. Toni has been blending for five years, has two stepkids, two bio kids, and one “ours” kid. This is her second blend, her first blend was when she was 19 years old and was completely different from her current blend.   In this episode we discuss: When bio mom gets upset that stepmom is pregnant Adding an “ours” kid to the blend Putting your marriage first Differences in blends Growing up in a blend that was like a nuclear family Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting Success Story: "If you are a stepmom struggling in any way, you’ve come to the right place. ... I could write a book on how much these podcasts and the Nacho Kids Academy have helped me personally. David and Lori, I can not thank you guys enough for bringing this concept out into the world. ... Almost every podcast I’ve listened to I will go from giggling my butt off to crying tears of relief, that somebody else gets it! I no longer feel alone in this stepmom journey and I feel so validated now. Thank you, thank you, thank you! You guys are truly amazing." M.C.