Episode 251: Stockholm Syndrome

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Episode 251: Stockholm Syndrome

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Mar 3, 2023

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Himeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about taboo fantasies like rape and kidnapping, how to shed our shame around these desires, the appeal of inter-species sex, and the Internal Family Systems therapy framework.

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Mar 3, 2023

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Hosted by Davey Wavey and based on the popular erotic website Himeros.tv, this is a fun, juicy version of the gay sex ed class you never had growing up. Join Davey and friends while we talk about gay sex!

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