Most of us haven’t had much, or any human contact in a while, so NOT doing sex may be a byproduct of the pandemic. We think isolation has changed the dating game for good, so we’re wondering if there really is something to be said for waiting to do the deed even after the safer at home ban is lifted. This is why we are bursting with excited to have best selling author of Why Waiting Works, founder of City Fam and speaker of The Truth About Sex Tour, Rob Kowalski on the show! We discuss why this reformed bad boy thinks waiting to have sex can bring you more fulfilling relationships (don’t worry, kissing is allowed), the scientific reasons why you feel closer to someone after sex and how this can be dangerous if it isn’t timed right, the differences between what men need versus women, when to tell the person you are interested in that you want to hold off on sex and how to approach the subject, why the “I need to take a test drive” response to having sex right away is an excuse for people who don't want to put in the work and communicate, how to audit your relationships to see if true love is present or not, ways to tell the difference between lust and love (hint it’s not exactly what you think), whether Rob thinks that relationships made during quarantine will last and if there will be a rise in sexual activity after the safe at home ban is lifted, how we can channel the energy we have been using on the wrong people towards finding the best versions of ourselves, why socializing with the right people can help you become the best version of yourself, and how to stay connected during hard times!!

Why You Should Wait with Rob
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Author @whywaitingworks / free book https://whywaitingworks.net/
Founder @thecityfam

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