Encore: I'm A Transgender Man, Seeking Acceptance

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Encore: I'm A Transgender Man, Seeking Acceptance

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Dec 3, 2022

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The Sugars read the letters of two transgender men who are struggling to find love and acceptance. They discuss with Cooper Lee Bombardier, a visual artist, writer and transgender man. This episode was originally aired on September 2, 2016.

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Dec 3, 2022

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