Tap in to another no bars held, raw unscripted, uncut conversation with, Dr. Monique Ross and her homegirl the beautiful Ms. Toya all the way in from Jamaica, where we talk her 1st time in STL and planting roots. Her hometown of Clarendon, Jamaica white sand beaches and beautiful blue oceans that you can see to the bottom of. We unpack the hussle of being a natural hair stylist and self taught makeup artist and how its a not about what you know but who you know. Your favorite Dr. Bae opens up about her handicap and why she chose the route of being an Intellect vs. other paths and clears the air on being smart vs. applying one's self. We talk how pursuing things for others vs. doing it for self is the real. The perception that doing hair and makeup is not a real job and the reality of it is if you hussle right there's a real Bag behind it. The importance of standing in your truth and finding where your belong. Stepping outside of comfort zones and no longer fighting it will have you stepping into your purpose and inspiring others. The people who see in us what we don't see in ourselves.We talk being viewed as vain, not being our hair. Corporate America, black hair and the laws surrounding our natural crown. Then we dive down a rabbit hole and discuss how different hair styles attracts different calibers of men and why that is. Why do makeup artist and hair stylist never have their shit done?The popularity of skin bleaching in Jamaica, Social media filters and knowing who you are and owning that shit. People being third party mad and how they will gladly scream your failures but whisper your successes. Last but not least Toya shares the  story of her kidnapping that made her YouTube famous, taking a calculated risks using her survival instincts to escape.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/appSupport this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pure-phuckery/support