A lesson in compassion and understanding from a most annoying woman

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A lesson in compassion and understanding from a most annoying woman

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Jan 29, 2019

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When we say we want to understand someone, but then view them through our own judgmentalism, we’re not being honest with ourselves. Compassion and understanding go hand in hand — when we let them.
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Jan 29, 2019

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Conflict resolution insights for vital personal and business relationships from professional mediator and conflict resolution teacher Dr. Tammy Lenski. Podcast formerly called The Space Between.

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A lesson in compassion and understanding from a most annoying woman

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