029 | Keep the Spark Alive After Baby with a Sex TherapistHey Shayla Podcast | Ep: 029Guest: Vanessa and Xander Marin Sex Therapists @vanessamarintherapyThank you for listening to the Hey Shayla podcast!  Here, we love to learn new things and decide what works for us and our family. We're the moms that support instead of judge and know there are many ways to do something right.  I'd love to connect on Instagram @heyshaylaYou’re told not to have sex until at least your 6 week postpartum check up. But a lot of women still can’t fathom having sex that soon.  There are so many things going on, hormones play a huge role, you’re exhausted, you’re touched out… AND you love your partner and want them to feel it.How do you keep the spark alive with out the S.E.X.? It’s a lot simpler than you might think! I had Vanessa and Xander Marin on my podcast, she’s a sex therapist and author and he’s a regular (and hilarious) dude. Their mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate and they do an extraordinary job on their social media and through the free material and courses they offer! They chatted with me about postpartum sex and how to communicate with your partner that your  lack of sex drive has nothing to do with them. This one might be a good one for both you AND your partner.Xo ShayCourses they offer on their website: https://vmtherapy.com/Free resource:  30 tips for parents for keeping the spark alive: http://join.vmtherapy.com/30-tips-for-parents-by-parents30 day connection challenge: https://vmtherapy.com/30dcc-priority-notificationMental Load Workbook: https://vmtherapy.thrivecart.com/mental-load-workbook/30 day sex challenge: https://vmtherapy.com/30dsc-priority-notificationFinishing School: https://vmtherapy.com/how-to-orgasmJoin the email list to be notified when episodes go live HERE!Affiliates in this Episode:*Clearly Filtered: Filtered water bottle pitcher use code HEYSHAYLA for 15% off*TushBaby: Great “Up-Down” Baby carrier use code HEYSHAYLA for 15% offLet's Connect!Instagram (@heyshayla)YouTube (Hey Shayla)Website (www.heyshayla.com)Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/shop/heyshayla)**Disclaimer: Please note that some of the links here are affiliate links. Which means at no cost to you, I will earn a commission if you decide to make a purchase after clicking through the link. I only work with companies that I love, and that I think you will love.