Love in the DM (Guests: Ryan and Kanita Rutley)

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Love in the DM (Guests: Ryan and Kanita Rutley)

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Sep 28, 2022

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Have you ever wondered the method God will use to introduce you to your future spouse? Will it be face to face? An introduction through a friend? Or maybe even through social media? Ryan and Kanita Rutley's love journey started out unassuming. However, with a delicate nudge from God, they found "Love in the DM."

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Sep 28, 2022

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