Would you rather a dad who isn't around or a dad who is present your whole life but emotionally unavailable?We continue our conversation with comedian Sandy Danto who has lived out my biggest fear, finding out his dad has a secret family. Sandy's parents divorced ten years ago and his dad, who seemed to be disinterested most of his life, has become a better dad to his mistress' kids than he was to his own.  
We discuss how Sandy overcame his struggles with his dad, set boundaries and has learnt how to not make the same mistakes his dad did. He also gets Bobby to open up about his passions like cartoon films, Jaco Pastorius and most importantly, Disney's Coco.
Follow Sandy on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sandydanto/
Check out his parenting podcast M'fers: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mfers-a-parenting-podcast-with-sandy-danto/id1399693949
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