Feeling appreciated in a relationship can look like anything to anyone. Ask 20 people and you’ll get 20 different responses. Obviously, being in a lifelong relationship means that you want your partner to be happy. You want to feel connected to your partner, and making sure he or she is feeling valued, heard, and appreciated is part of a healthy relationship. Tom and Lisa take a look at why being direct and asking your partner what they want, and doing the work to find out what their love language is will add to the health and value of your relationship. Key takeaway in this episode is to stop guessing and make a concerted effort to make your partner feel more loved and appreciated.Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.SHOW NOTES:Ask Your Partner | Lisa explains why asking your partner is better than guessing [1:03]Know Their Love Language | Give your partner gifts that match their love language [2:40]Don’t Judge | Lisa shares why you can’t judge your partner’s love language, respect it [6:22]Check-In | Tom discuss if gamifying a routine check-in with each other can be effective [9:35]Feedback | How to give each other feedback in ways that are easier to be received [14:16]Fishbowl Game | Tom reveals his fun feedback idea with a fish bowl and paper [18:56]QUOTES:“If you want to be happy, then you have to take off the judgment and be like, Okay, this is them.” Lisa Bilyeu [6:57]“When you have feedback like that, one, you want to give it as soon as you can. and two, you want to look for a moment where the person is receptive.” Tom Bilyeu [15:59]