Jamy Bechler appeared on the "Secrets of Winning" podcast hosted by Dr. Bhrett McCabe, who is a high-level sports psychologist working with top golfers and the University of Alabama. Jamy talked about becoming the leader your team needs. SHOW NOTES “Coaching is taking a player from where they are to where they ultimately need to be.” 4:00 - CONFLICT IN COACHING AND LEADERSHIP WORLD 7:20 – ADAPTING WITH THE TIMES 11:20 – WHY THE “MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY” PHILOSOPHY DOESN’T WORK ANYMORE 13:00 – WHY DEALING WITH PLAYERS IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE X’S AND O’S 16:40 – JAMY’S DEFINITION OF COACHING 20:00 – EXAMPLE OF A DYNAMIC LEADER TODAY AND WHAT THAT LOOKS LIKE 24:00 – HOW COACHES CAN FIND COMMON GROUND IN REGARDS TO CULTURAL DIFFERENCES 26:00 – DISSECTING A CONVERSATION BETWEEN LEADER AND TEAM MEMBER 28:00 – IMPACT JAMY MADE WHILE SPEAKING TO TORONTO RAPTORS 31:00 – WHAT CAN LEADERS DO TO RECHARGE AND AVOID EXHAUSTION? 34:00 – COACHING THE PERSON ON THE END OF THE BENCH 38:00 – CATCH YOUR PLAYERS DOING SOMETHING WELL AND MENTION IT 40:20 – JAMY’S BOOK, THE BUS TRIP - - - - - SUCCESS IS A CHOICE PODCAST NETWORK Check out our weekly virtual sessions for parents, coaches, students, and administrators at FreeLeadershipWorkshop.com. These sessions are free and cover a variety of topics. - - - -  The Success is a Choice podcast network is made possible, in part, by TheLeadershipPlaybook.com. Great teams have great teammates and everyone can be a person of influence. Build a stronger culture today by helping athletes become better teammates and more positive leaders. Get $100 off your first year when you use the coupon code SUCCESS at checkout.  Chin Up Chest Out is also a proud partner of the Success is a Choice podcast network. ChinUpChestOut.com is more than a great apparel brand, it's a movement. A portion of all sales of their fabulous merchandise and apparel goes to support mental health initiatives. Our listeners can get 10% off and free shipping with promo code PLAYBOOK. With the new NIL (name, image, and likeness) rules, they are looking for college athletes to be brand ambassadors.  - - - -  Please consider rating the podcast with 5 stars and leaving a quick review on iTunes.  Ratings and reviews are the lifeblood of a podcast. This helps tremendously in bringing the podcast to the attention of others. Thanks again for listening and remember that “Success is a choice. What choice will you make today?” - - - -  Jamy Bechler is the author of four books including The Captain and The Bus Trip, host of the Success is a Choice Podcast, professional speaker, and trains organizations on creating championship cultures. He previously spent 20 years as a college basketball coach and administrator.  The Leadership Playbook is Bechler's online program that helps athletes become better teammates and more positive leaders while strengthening a team's culture. As a certified John Maxwell leadership coach, Bechler has worked with businesses and teams, including the NBA. Follow him on Twitter at @CoachBechler. To connect with him via email or find out about his services, please contact speaking@CoachBechler.com. You can also subscribe to his insights on success and leadership by clicking here.