Guilt implies a criminal offense. It is the result of our failure to honor a moral or legal obligation. Some of the things that we assume we are obligated to do are pure fantasy! And if we're really being honest with ourselves the only reason we do some of this stuff is that we are convinced it's the only way to be a "nice girl" or a "good boy" in others' eyes. I am suggesting that we drop the bullshit approval-seeking, people-seeking antics and get back to ourselves. After all, if we can experience bliss and wellness what good are we to anybody else? I am advocating for putting and keeping yourself first and enjoying more of what interests and pleases YOU.