Ep 188: “It hurts when having sex.” Do you find yourself saying that sentence? Sex should be fun and satisfying. It should feel good. But for some women, penetrative sex is painful. Yikes! Something that is supposed to be enjoyable and give people feel-good hormones is suddenly dead in the water when unwanted pain chokes off the fun. I’m so happy to be sharing that there is a solution to help eliminate the pain! I’m excited to share this tool so that people can quit being plagued by painful sex. Curious? Here's my affiliate link to it: https://tinyurl.com/3ccdnacy Sex Should be Enjoyable, Not Painful.There are other ways to enjoy sex and physical closeness with a partner other than vaginal penetration, such as oral sex, nipple play, cuddling and caressing each other, stimulating the clitoris and or penis, or anal sex. But if penetrative sex is something both partners desire to include in their sexual intimacy but it hurts, then intimacy can’t be at its best. I’m an affiliate for a sex toy company called MysteryVibe. I recently received an announcement from them that one of their products reduces pain from penetrative sex for those suffering from such pain. I was very excited to hear this news. Immediately, I wanted to spread this information around because I’m passionate about helping people have better sex, both solo and with a partner(s), improve their sex lives, and experience increased libido so they can enjoy their bodies and their interpersonal relationships.That’s a lot of words for … I just want people to enjoy sex! Ha! Well, it’s true, I do.Being limited by the fear of pain due to penetration during sex is a sad state to be in. This pain closes off a whole area of the body that can bring pleasure, namely the G-spot/internal clitoris. So, when something gets invented to help alleviate that pain, I have a giant urge to shout it from the rooftops. Woohoo! Let’s go!What Can a Woman Do When It Hurts When Having Sex?If this is you, what are the options? Listen and find out in this episode.Curious about this? You can also find out more in the article I wrote about this on my website at https://ruanwillowauthor.com/if-it-hurts-when-having-sex-try-a-doctor-endorsed-vibrator-to-help/The sex toy/tool is Crescendo, and it has resulted in a 480% improvement in pain scores for those suffering from painful sex. WOW! Now that’s some seriously positive results! The disorder that was studied is called Genito-Pelvic Pain & Penetration Disorder (GPPPD). They report “1 in 10 women suffer from GPPPD, a condition known to cause painful sex and difficulty with vaginal penetration. There are currently limited treatment options available for GPPPD, therefore, this news is unprecedented and potentially Quality-of-Life changing.”Affiliate link to Crescendo for women: https://tinyurl.com/3ccdnacyFor men: https://tinyurl.com/2p84prssRuan interviews the CEO of MysteryVibe: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10080476-ep-121-how-technology-improves-sex-an-interview-the-ceo-of-mystery-vibeConnect with podcast host Ruan: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowNew! Leave Ruan a voicemail for the podcast!  https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillowSupport the show