Ep 186: Dom sub Discussion with Fat Chicks On Top Podcaster, author, performer, and kinkster Auntie Vice. Her work focuses on kink, BDSM, and gender. We really had quite the epic & amazing conversation. We chatted about Dom/sub topics including what Dom's hate most, who benefits from a Dom/sub relationship, kink and D/s, sub space and top or Dom space, consent, and how the BDSM/Dom/sub communities do consent the best and should be models for lawmakers. With a background in law, she shares fabulous, and shocking, insight into laws surrounding sexuality and consent. She even shares action tips for us all to take to protect ourselves and have our voices heard. This information can be found on her website. Check out her linktree for access to all her links/books/classes https://linktr.ee/AuntieVice and her website https://www.auntievice.com/Auntie Vice is an author, instructor, performer, and podcaster. Her extensive knowledge and experiences in all things dominant and submissive are helpful, insightful, and expansive. She has several books and courses available about the Dom/sub dynamic. Here's one called the Big Workbook for Submissives which is a Golden Flogger Finalist at (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/3qlE9G5We discussed how she loves to create a space for expression and discussion for those marginalized from the current sex-positive movement such as big/fat folks, those of color, disabled people, queer folks, sex workers, and nongender conforming people. Check out her podcast for more on these topics https://www.auntievice.com/podcast Auntie Vice's other books:Dating Kinky: How to find the kinky love of your fantasies. (Dating Kinky Presents Book 1) in ebook https://amzn.to/3cy2qp7 and in audiobook https://amzn.to/3pZ8k5ELove Letters to a Unicorn https://amzn.to/3AIk8hq30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery https://amzn.to/3TyQW5fTo connect with the podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qBBeing at the right place at the right time sparks two naked young lovers to take a chance.Podcast merchandise! Get shirts with Oh F*ck Yeah on them right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/She Dominated Him Out of a Speeding Ticket, a dominant female story:https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/da4dc90e-1416-11ed-9694-9fc04fcc4d83The Licking Sip Coffee Shop, topless baristas who offer more than what's on the menu! This shop has got a tittie washer, gotta wash off the saliva and remnants of whipped cream! This is saucy dirty yummy tale! https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1bc2ede8-10e2-11ed-bd31-d788e5ae6b49Never Say, Never Swing, a story of friends hooking up for a first-time swinging story where long-time fantasies get fulfilled! https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/8771f0ec-ffa9-11ec-950a-8f0d44267c5dHave a sexy day!Love ya! RuanSupport the show