Are you trying to make changes to your infidelity situation, but are having difficulty dealing with the contradictions of your thoughts and desires? According to Dr. Marie Murphy, the decisions surrounding infidelity may seem complicated — especially if you have strong feelings for your affair partner. But, if you don’t have a clear reason for ending or staying in your relationship, you will never have a clear answer. Luckily, there are some techniques to help you identify the desires and motivations behind your choices. As Dr. Murphy says, once you recognize the value behind your decision, you can take a positive step forward. In this episode of Your Secret is Safe With Me, Dr. Marie Murphy discusses how to get clear on your decisions about ending your affair. Listen in as Dr. Murphy talks about recognizing your genuine thoughts about changing your relationship, the importance of understanding the value of your decisions, and how to avoid the impulse to act on your desires in order to achieve a meaningful outcome.