If the sky was the limit, what’s the highest achievement possible for you? A six-figure salary, a growing family, juicy benefits, the “perfect” body? And before you really think about your answer, let me ask you something: is this the language in which your heart and soul authentically speak to you? Chances are, probably not!  So here’s the thing: we've been conditioned by the phenomenon of ‘milestones’, and as a result, relying on the final outcome for happiness. But these accomplishments are only a fraction of the greater formula for our dream life. Our dream life is really a blend of powerful questioning, redefining success (to our standards), and redirecting our instincts in times of complete disruption. The outcome is never absolute, so why force ourselves to live according to that false truth? That’s exactly what Tiffany Paul started to ask herself years into living her ‘dream life’. Although her life on paper was seemingly picture-perfect, Tiffany started to feel the inkling that there was more for her life than a big city and a bigger paycheck. Once she started to really question what was gonna bring her happiness and success, Tiffany soon realized she wasn’t living on her own terms. So she went on to launch her own business in the hopes of reclaiming her freedom. Plot twist: nothing went according to plan. But an even bigger plot twist is this: she found the bright side and it was more than she could ever imagine! If you happen to be caught between living and dreaming (and craving both) I think I have everything you need… inside this amazing IHML Show episode! This week I had fellow podcast host and total spitfire Tiffany Paul on to discuss what it really means to live your dream life. Tiffany will also be detailing her own pivots towards self-development and entrepreneurship, what keeps us present, and how to navigate unexpected circumstances.  I’m so excited to have this exuberant, wise, and radiant human on to talk about similarities (and differences) in our philosophies. Truth be told, there’s no singular definition behind living your dream life. And you know what? That’s what growth is all about. So don’t prolong your transformation any longer. Start changing your life now… by redefining the terms you live by! In This Episode: [0:42] Tiffany jumps into the wild ride she’s taken in life (and business) that introduced her to the bright side of personal development. [3:48] Just some of the major pivots that brought Tiffany to launch her podcast, Break the Matrix (plus her multiple businesses)! [7:00] Listen to Tiffany break down the six-figure milestone phenomena and what gave her the clarity to gravitate down a different path. [10:22] This is what Tiffany learned about the “logic” behind our dreams. [11:39] If you have an inkling there’s something more out there… Tiffany has some first steps for you to try! [13:40] Here’s the BTS look behind Tiffany’s five years of building her business. [17:04] What to do when things fall apart— in the wise words of Tiffany! [19:58] So… what else has Tiffany done to create her dream life? She spills. [23:32] Tiffany gets real with Emily about the outgrown definition of “living”... [26:49] This is why Tiffany believes the ‘why’ holds us back from enjoying our journey (and the other half of the life equation). [32:12] Yes, Tiffany has even more advice on how to create a life that’s better than your dreams! Quotes: “I started looking at my life and kind of feeling guilty [because] on paper I have everything that society tells me should make me happy.” — Tiffany Paul “What does living the dream look like and going beyond just achievement, success and money and titles and businesses: what is it really about?” — Tiffany Paul  “As any business owner knows, it takes time to create money and a financially successful business. There's a lot of investment in foundational structures that may be put into place. And so at that moment where I was like, ‘I'm kind of starting all over again. Thi