The Gift of Envy

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The Gift of Envy

FromThe Book of Life: Weekly Wisdom with Ruchi Koval

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Jun 10, 2021

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It’s difficult to scroll through social media without feeling envious of someone else’s “perfect” life. Envy is addictive – and it’s on us to break the habit. Ruchi Koval shares how to rise above that awful feeling.

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Jun 10, 2021

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