47: Self Care & the 3-2-1 Rule with Dan Purcell

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47: Self Care & the 3-2-1 Rule with Dan Purcell

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Taking care of yourself is part of taking care of your relationship. Join me for this SOLO episode and learn how to use the 3-2-1 rule to enhance yourself and your relationship with your spouse.

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Sep 15, 2021

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47: Self Care & the 3-2-1 Rule with Dan Purcell

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