12 - Accepting Others

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12 - Accepting Others

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Jan 20, 2018

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“Let philosophy scrape off your own faults, rather than be a way to rail against the faults of others,” wrote Seneca. Rather wasting time trying to change others, we should learn how be more accepting of who they are.

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Jan 20, 2018

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