3 Mistakes We Make in Relationships & Why the 5 Love Languages Can Transform Your Connection

7 Questions You Must Ask to Deepen Any Relationship, Friendship or Partnership: Being in a relationship is a work in progress. Fully committing to that relationship is hard work. There are no shortcuts, no hacks. There is no one pattern that works for everyone. It’s a handful, and both must be fully invested to make it work. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares relationship questions that will make you think, rethink, and contemplate whether you’re doing enough to nurture your relationship. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

24 min listen

4 Mistakes We Make with Our Mindset & 4 Steps to Deepen Your Connection to Yourself and Stop Listening to Others Opinions: When negative thoughts turn into action, that turns into habits, and then become an addiction that ruins our life, surrounding yourself with people that can talk you out of these negative thoughts will change your life. Having people around with positive influence on you is the best way to combat addiction. In this episode of On Purpose, we get to listen again to Jay’s conversation with Russell Brand on Follow The Reader with Jay Shetty. They talk about why we become addicted to things and how to pivot from it. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

28 min listen

6 Mistakes We Make in Relationships & 4 Ways to Make Them Right: Being too critical about the things your partner does, unknowingly, makes you the toxic person in the relationship. When you get the same treatment from your partner, you often feel unappreciated and unloved without realizing that you’ve been doing the same thing to them. As this cycle continues, the foundation crumbles and the relationship inevitably fails. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains the mistakes we often make in our relationship and how we should be mindful of our actions to strengthen it. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

24 min listen

5 Reasons We Break Up & 6 Ways You Know If You're Ready to Date Again: Coming from a bad, toxic, or traumatic relationship would often make us edgy. We build up walls to block the wrong people from ever coming into our lives and putting us through difficult moments and heartbreaking experiences. We lose confidence in others because of our past relationships and in doing so, we may never be ready to open up again for a new relationship. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the signs that will tell us when we are ready to love again and when it's okay to entrust our feelings to someone new. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

26 min listen

8 Principles of Communication to Improve Your Relationship and Become a Better Problem Solver by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

29 min listen

5 Ways To Reduce Helplessness in Difficult Times & How To Improve Your Relationship With The News: Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm How many times have you heard bad news first thing in the morning and then end up feeling bad for the rest of the day? Or how about reading a bad comment online and feeling restless about it? The news that we consume everyday can highly affect our mental health which can result in us feeling stressed and helpless. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how to reduce the feeling of helplessness and how we can improve our relationship with the news. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ Key Takeaways: 00:00 Intro 00:28 The feeling of helplessness 02:17 The Seligman Experiment 07:24 Step # by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

25 min listen

4 Things That Are Not Love and 4 Ways To Know You Have Found The One: Love isn’t love when you don’t grow together, when you don’t appreciate your partner’s efforts and time, when your goals do not align with the other, and when you aren’t fully committed to the relationship. Love is deep and sometimes complicated, but it’s never about doing things separately or losing interest in what the other person is doing. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

28 min listen

9 Personality Types & How to Understand Your Type to Know Your Strengths & Improve Your Relationships: Our personality is a major component of who we are as a person and is often how people see us. Depending on the personality type that is dominant within us, our reactions to different situations vary from others. And these varying reactions may be viewed negatively by other people because their personality is the exact opposite of ours. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares the key qualities of the different personality types and what can be done to improve our personality development. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

30 min listen

7 Proven Ways to Know You're Falling in Love: Have you been truly in love? Have you loved someone so much they are always included in your plans? Have you been in a situation where you can’t wait to spend more time with the person you love? Being in love is rich, flavorful, and addictive. It changes you and how you see the world. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty narrates the different signs that tell you are falling in love with someone and how to deal with your own feelings. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

29 min listen

11 Principles for Love I've Learned about Love for 2022: What makes a good partner? Are you doing your part in making the relationship work? Do you see yourself being in a relationship with the person you are with now for years to come? If so, have you found the right blend of love, understanding, and communication to make it last? In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty discusses the principles of love we ought to learn and practice for a harmonious and worth keeping relationship this year. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

36 min listen

4 Types of People You Will Meet in Life & How to Connect and Communicate with Them to Avoid Negativity: We've probably met different types of people with varying personalities and we've never really thought about it. It may seem trivial, unimportant, or unrelated to what we want to accomplish that day. But having a good grasp of the different types of people will actually help us form better connections. We can start avoiding misunderstandings and miscommunication when we understand how the people around us think and how they act upon their thoughts. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains four different personality types, their possible habits and actions, and how we can effectively communicate and interact with them. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

25 min listen

Meghan Trainor ON: Breaking Generational Trauma & How to Be Confident From the Inside Out: Today, I sit down with Meghan Trainor, an award-winning singer, songwriter, producer, and multi-instrumentalist that has garnered a GRAMMY for Best New Artist, achieved eight multi-platinum singles and two platinum albums, sold out three world tours, penned multi-platinum hits for peers across pop and country, received countless industry awards and nominations, and has recently started her own podcast with her brother Ryan Trainor entitled Workin’ On It, while also becoming a TikTok star. She has just released her new single “Bad For Me,” featuring Teddy Swims, and has announced her fourth full-length album, Takin’ It Back, arriving October 21st, 2022, via Epic Records. Meghan shares what her childhood was like growing up on a small community island, her passion for song writing and how having supportive parents helped her get recognition for her talent and eventually led to releasing her debut by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

63 min listen

Noah Cyrus ON: How to Handle Negative Opinions of Others & Turning Anxiety into Creativity: Today I sit down with the very amazing Noah Cyrus. Noah is a Grammy award-nominee, multi platinum, Nashville-born and Los Angeles-based singer and songwriter. Emerging in 2016 at the age of 16, she immediately captivated audiences with platinum singles "Make Me (Cry)" and Again. Noah teamed up with PJ Harding for the People Don't Change EP in 2021. Along the way, she performed at Coachella twice, while Billboard named her among its "21 Under 21" for three straight years. She also shined on The Late Late Show with James Corden, The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon, Ellen, and The Today Show. Now, she introduces the next chapter with the "I Burned LA Down". Noah shares to us a vulnerable side of her and how music has helped her heal from her past. Growing up she mentioned that self-love and self-acceptance was something that she never really practiced and is still a difficult thing to do at the by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

51 min listen

3 Ways Love Affects the Brain & 3 Steps for Healthy Relationships: Today, I’m going to talk about three aspects of love that affect our brain and the way we think. If we can understand how our brain processes these emotions, then we can become better at handling our emotions as well as our relationships. I start by explaining what these three aspects are, the chemical reaction that happens in our body when we feel them, and the ways we can improve how we handle these feelings. Come join me and discover what aspect you can gradually improve. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

21 min listen

2 Practical Ways to Enjoy Time By Yourself & Overcome Feelings of Loneliness: Today, I’m sharing a deep and meaningful conversation with Mason Spector and Peiman Raf of the Madhappy Podcast - a show that aims to create more conversation around mental health by illuminating the full spectrum of mental health, the highs and the lows. I get to share my journey as a monk, the valuable lessons on how to purify our ego, master our mind, manage our emotions, and live in service of others. We also talk about the difference between being alone and feeling lonely, and why it is important to always find time to be by yourself to reconnect with your thoughts. And finally, we dive into how our actions positively and negatively impacts the people around us and how we should deviate from external validation and instead focus on self validation to help tame our ego. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

56 min listen

Susan Cain ON: Why It’s Okay to Feel Sad & the First Step to Healing Emotional Trauma: Susan explains the reason behind why we process pain differently and why moving on is doable for others after some time but seems difficult for some. We also discuss how some people were able to turn painful experiences into inspiration and achieve creative success, the importance of shared connection and how we can find balance in expressing, accepting, and addressing our individual pain through these connections, and finally, the first step to healing is acceptance. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

63 min listen

8 Relationship Red Flags To Never Avoid and 4 Ways To Investigate Further: Anywhere we go, red flags are signs that we should always look out for. It can mean your safety is compromised. It can mean you are exposed to danger. Now, when it comes to relationships, it can also mean that you are with the wrong person, or worse, you are the wrong person in your current relationship. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty narrates to us the noticeable signs that can tell us that the person we are building a future with may not be the one. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

31 min listen

Andrew Huberman ON: Learning Effectively & How to Train Your Brain For Optimal Performance: Jay Shetty sits down with Andrew Huberman to talk about the beauty and power of the human mind. We are all wired to feel emotions based on our experience, on our perception of what is happening around us, and on what we anticipate to happen in the future. And the most fascinating thing is that our mind perceives time differently and is dependent on how we feel. Dr. Andrew Huberman is a tenured Professor of Neurobiology and Ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine. His laboratory studies neural regeneration and neuroplasticity, and brain states such as stress, focus, fear, and optimal performance. His podcast, The Huberman Lab, discusses neuroscience and science-based tools, including how our brain and its connections with the organs of our body control our perceptions, our behaviors, and our health, as well as existing and emerging tools for measuring and changing how our nervous system wo by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

94 min listen

Jenna Kutcher ON: Manifesting Your Ideal Work Life Balance & How to Avoid Burnout: Jay Shetty talks to Jenna Kutcher about her newest book called, How Are You, Really? Sometimes, when people ask us how we are, we tend to lie and just reply, “I’m fine.” We even lie to ourselves to make us feel better even though we really are not. But what difference would it make if we actually try to get to know ourselves better and get to know how we are…really? Jenna Kutcher is a born-and-raised Minnesota wife, mother, and entrepreneur who aims for two things daily: helping others wake up to life and staying in comfy pants. Creator and host of the top-rated Goal Digger Podcast, she’s helped thousands redefine success and chase bold dreams through her decade-long work as a leading online personality and educator. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

58 min listen

Dwyane Wade ON: Letting Go of Validation to Become Your Best Self: Jay Shetty talks to NBA legend Dwyane Wade about his journey on and off the court. From staying true to his spiritual belief through every game and creating meaningful relationships with his family and friends to helping and building a community out of passion and goodwill and looking past the present to be able to do more. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

48 min listen

4 Reasons We Crave External Validation and 3 Ways to Feel Truly Seen, Heard, and Understood by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

25 min listen

Gwyneth Paltrow Interviews Jay Shetty ON: Daily Actions to Build Life-Changing Habits & Training Your Mind to Break Old Patterns: This is a special episode of On Purpose where Gwyneth Paltrow sits down with Jay Shetty in her goop event held at the Porsche Design Center in Los Angeles with only 150 people in the audience. We get to listen to Jay’s journey as a monk and his career shift after leaving monkhood, how we can condition our mind to find strength and happiness, and what can help us learn how to appreciate our step by step journey. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

40 min listen

3 Dates Every Couple Needs to Go On & 3 Conversations You Shouldn't Avoid: Today, I will be sharing a snippet from my book, 8 Rules of Love, that talks about the three dates that truly matter in any relationship including finding common interest and have fun together, learning what your partner values and respecting their choices, and being open about future plans. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

30 min listen

3 Ways to Stop Feeling Stuck and Start Turning Your Life Around & How to Break Free From the Noise: Today, I’m going to share with you my first ever public interview with my friend Tom Bilyeu of the Impact Theory podcast. It is one of my favorite conversations because we talk about the power self awareness has in influencing your relationships with others especially with the people close to you and at work. I also talk about breaking free from the norm, from what society expects from us, and from the limits we have set for ourselves. Once we become self aware, we can then start asking questions that need honest answers and we can often get these answers from people we look up to and from our experiences. And as the level of self awareness increases, we make better decisions and eventually, enjoy positive results. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

56 min listen

Raquelle Stevens & Tanya Rad ON: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome & Finding True Purpose by Redefining Success: Today, let’s welcome Raquelle Stevens and Tanya Rad. Raquelle Stevens’ most recent work includes hosting and producing, Giving Back Generation. She also starred in the Apple documentary, Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me and the hit series, Selena + Chef. Tanya Rad co-hosts On Air with Ryan Seacrest, hosting iHeartRadio's Top 40 show, The Vibe, and creating community on her popular podcast, Scrubbing In. Raquelle and Tanya just released their new book, The Sunshine Mind. Raquelle and Tanya opens up about how to turn a possibly bad day into a good one, the beauty of giving love unconditionally and receiving the same amount of love in return, the imposter syndrome we all have, finding contentment wherever we are in life, and the huge difference between chemistry and character when it comes to your relationships. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

76 min listen

Corinne Foxx ON: Coping With Anxiety & Being Kind Even When Life Isn’t: Corinne Foxx sits down with Jay Shetty to talk about mental health. Diagnosed with anxiety at age 14, connecting with people became a challenge. She shares how coaching and therapy helped her get through her most difficult times and how she’s giving back as a volunteer after receiving help from others. Learning how to meditate and have the freedom to be creative continuously strengthens her resolve to keep sharing her talents with the world. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

60 min listen

7 Ways to Be Productive Even When You're Tired: Too tired to work. Too tired to move around. Too tired to just do anything. When you’re too exhausted you lack the energy to finish what you need to do, you lose the chance to accomplish important tasks and it only leads to more stress and frustration. It becomes a stumbling block, that when left alone and unaddressed, can become problematic and may affect your routines. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the best practices that can help us regain our strength and replenish our energy to remain productive. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

24 min listen

8 Ways to Improve Your Circle & Accelerate Your Impact in the World: The people worth keeping in our life are those that see our potential and encourage us to work on them to achieve success at work, in our career, in relationships, and in life. Let the values they stand by influence us positively and allow the valuable life experience and knowledge they share to give us a better life perspective. This week, we listen to Steven Bartlett of The Diary Of A CEO interview Jay Shetty about his childhood, professional career, monkhood, and the life of purpose he is leading as he chats with successful people in pursuit of success, wellbeing, mental health, and love. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

107 min listen

3 Daily Practices of Successful People & 2 Ways to Improve Your Relationship with Money: Today, I am bringing something new to the table. With my good friend, Lewis Howes of The School of Greatness podcast, we’ve decided to join our heads together to talk about conversations that are uncomfortable, pressing on taboo topics, a bit thought provoking, and sometimes awkward to discuss openly. This is a space where we try to answer questions many of us may have thought of but didn’t have the opportunity to freely seek for answers. So, welcome to the first episode of the Awkward Therapy Conversations. Lewis and I address the doubts surrounding our spirituality and becoming successful. Can we aspire to be wealthy and be spiritual at the same time? Do we have to give up success and wealth to deepen our spiritual intention? Let’s try to evaluate our relationship with money, how to stay humble throughout this journey, why success built on purpose is more fulfilling than just accumulating wealth by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

62 min listen

Miranda Kerr ON: Self-Care Made Simple & How to Stay Curious as a Lifelong Learner: Jay Shetty talks to Miranda Kerr about the challenges of being a mother, businesswoman, media personality, and an advocate of organic beauty products. Many people are now more aware of the benefits of all organic products and what these products can do for our health and wellbeing. Growing up in a household that also appreciates and practices this, it’s a never ending journey to continuously create and develop products that are purely and genuinely natural. by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

52 min listen

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