Figuring out how to discipline children is not an easy task. What did our parents do? What does the research say? How do our personal morals shape our chosen methods of punishment? What does the child need? How do we raise children so that they grow up healthy and safe? What's "right" and "wrong" when it comes to disciplining children is not so black-and-white. Aja, Laiya, and Jill talk about the spankings they've gotten, the spankings they've given, and the difficult conversations they've had with their parents about the link between slavery and discipline today.Resources mentioned in this episode:12 Innovative Punishment Ideas for Kids (though the advice given is not recommended by Aja, Jill, and Laiya)Article: "It Is Illegal to Spank Your Child in SA - ConCourt""All About Love: New Visons" by bell hooks Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.