If you type in Tori Kruse in Google, you will find a sparkling crown and sash from her days as Miss Missouri USA 2018. As former Miss Missouri USA, Tori learned to perform the external life everyone expected. What she did not expect was the internal journey of discovering the unexpected. She set out to win a title, but her greatest achievement was uncovering, unlocking, and unleashing her authentic self.    In this episode, Brad and Tori discuss the importance of focusing on the RIGHT things to win and how you are the only person who can change for yourself.    00:00 Intro 02:00 Brad’s Driven speech 03:20 How pageantry is a journey 04:31 Bomb 1: “I was losing because I wasn’t focused on the daily affirmations and gratitude.” - Tori Kruse 06:52 Bomb 2: “How can you love the hell out of someone else but hate yourself?” - Tori Kruse 10:23 Bomb 3: “I am not in the game to change anyone, people need to change for themselves.”- Tori Kruse 15:25 “I don’t hold onto resentment, because that would only hurt me.” - Tori Kruse 22:15 The unexpected coaching program 26:24 Sometimes helping a dude is a helping a woman-- Brad Lea 28:55 “Breakthroughs are on the other side of change.” - Tori Kruse 30:32 The power of NO 32:41 What happens in pageant life 39:00 College 42:36 Top three things to get out relationship 43:04 Top three books 44:00 Uncover, unlock and unleash for entrepreneurs 47:50 Redirection 58:15 “Get through the situation and breakthrough.” - Tori Kruse 01:08:24 Krusifiction 01:10:16 Share out this episode, follow tori @misstorikruse and check out her website at https://www.torikruse.com