His first partner knew what she liked, his second one was super open to exploring, his mom was *not* happy when she found his (kink-filled) journal as he entered adulthood, and later on in life, he had a greater understanding of why exactly. We talk conservative upbringings, an uncle with nudie magazines, making VHS tapes of Blue Nuit softcore porn and trying to masturbate without getting caught, flirting vs friendliness, Dan Savage’s wisdom on a bus stop, the Dom-like warehouse space he used to live in, dildos that look like his cock, being naked at parties, the exchange that led him to exploring his own ass, how he runs negotiations, homemade cages, fisting, fucking a partner with a strawberry and other extremely kinky things, the hotness of potential, understanding fantasy vs. literal talk, a love of 69-ing, the desire for a ganbang, and how his non-monogamous partnership has shifted forms as-needed. 30’s cis M queer leaning hetero-romantic; long-term monogamish life partnership / works in wellness & as a ProDom from the PNW, into power dynamics, ass play, leather & toys @masterwolfe604 // sexstoriespodcast.com // mission69.org // betterhelp.com/sexstories