Why you should never beg anyone to keep you when they want to get rid of you, are confused about their feelings for you or are pushing you away, and what you should do instead to cause them to start valuing you and making a sincere effort to keep you.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who has been following my work for about two years. His original problem was that he literally chased women right out of his life that liked him. After he started applying what my book teaches he got focused on his purpose and mission like never before. He moved back to Canada after living in Hong Kong for nine years to pursue acting and stunt work in the TV and film industry. After six months he got a job as part of a stunt team for a popular Netflix show that shoots in Europe and Asia for seven months a year. One month after his career started taking off he met a really beautiful woman who knocked his socks off. She fell in love quickly and said that she would prove to him that she would be better than any other woman. Once he left for Europe to shoot the European located scenes of the TV show, things went south with his relationship. She was supposed to come visit him in Europe. Two weeks before she came to visit, she bailed and said that she felt emotionally distant from him. It was at this point that he did some email coaching with me to get his power back and start turning things around to get her to start wanting him instead of discarding him. I also discuss a recent email update he sent me that details some of the success he has had turning things around by standing up for himself strategically to amplify his value to her and demonstrate that his time is a precious and scarce commodity.