If you're codependent, you may find yourself concentrating on your loved one's addiction (sometimes more than they are). Or relying on them to validate your feelings and help you feel better. And look, no judgment at all.  But you may be surprised to learn how some of your own hurt, pain, and struggles are similar to what your partner experiences with their addiction. In this week's episode, I discuss the traits you might have in common with your partner and how it relates to each person's recovery. Just a loving reminder: you can get better and move forward with your growth regardless of whether they choose to get healthy. Your loved one's sobriety has nothing to do with your happiness. Find more here:  https://loveoveraddiction.com/codependent-common-traits/ Join us here: https://loveoveraddiction.com