wedding excitement! / Kaustubha’s apology / my spiritual director said it’s ok if I pray while I smoke / spiritual regulations are prescribed differently to different people / renunciation isn’t the goal of spirituality - devotion is / arrogance is a greater sin than weakness / humility is fertile ground for spiritual growth / wisdom has to do with understanding how things grow / better to be with a prostitute thinking of God, than in the church thinking about a prostitute / the old lady who climbed on the Sannyasi