“my goal is this: always to put myself in the place in which I am best able to serve, wherever my gifts and qualities find the best soil to grow” / turning your ambition over to Krishna / aligning the heart with the great souls / being bigger than the pettiness of the material world / the most genuine compassion is grown out of deep introspection / you might be the jerk / the universal system of order is designed to foster gratitude in the hearts of humans / non-binary mentions in Bhagavatam SB 4.17.1-26