Allison Hope made a bet with a friend to see who could orgasm first, explored her sexuality in New York City’s queer community and realized her sex limits during a salacious week on Fire Island—all before meeting her now wife. In the past few years, they’ve navigated very different libidos.    You’ll also learn:   Two ways perimenopause can impact sexual desire How Allison’s journey and erotica writing interplay What inspired Allison to write “The Phallacy”    Allison’s articles and essays: urbaninbreeding.com   Read Allison’s story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   More GirlBoner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner/