When do you abandon your needs to keep others happy? TBM coach Atarah Valentine chats with Jessica about this, outgrowing friends, the energetics behind disassociation, embracing loneliness, and he shares a big announcement! Atarah also covers how to stop changing your identity based on other people, differentiating between pings and compulsions, and his favorite healing modalities. Such a powerful episode. Enjoy!  Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast In This Episode We Talk About:Atarah’s latest UplevelHow Atarah transformed into his authentic self from the inside outEmbracing your lonelinessHow to stop changing who you are for other peopleListening to pings vs compulsionsBlocks he worked through, healing modalities he leaned onThe energetics behind disassociation Navigating a career change later in lifeThe importance of finding fragment expandersCodependency in friendshipsTappng into surrender Resources: The Pathway - (12-month commitment) - Looking To Start Your Membership? Use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the Pathway  or $20 off any ala carteNewsletterA la Carte Workshops Text Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)Sign Up for our TBM Manifestation Journal Waitlist In The Episode:BLUblox Website - 15% off with code MAGNETICEMF Harmonizing StickeremFlo EMF & 5G Radiation Shielding ProductsUnboxing Video of Harmonizing Sticker showing how it works!Expanded Ep 72 x Andy Mant of BLUbloxExpanded Ep. 36 x Andy Mant BLUblox Beekeeper’s Naturals - 25% off your purchase with code TBMBeekeeper's Naturals Propolis Throat SprayB.Smooth Ginger Lemon Lozenges B.Smooth Peppermint Eucalyptus LozengesB. Powered Superfood HoneyExpanded Ep. 137 x Carly Stein of Beekeeper’s Naturals EXPANDED Episode 90 x The Process with Atarah - Moving Through Rock BottomsMagnetic Self DIUnblocked Shadow Unblocked Inner child Daily PracticeAuthentic codeReinforcing DIsExtra Layers WorkshopsBook a Coaching Session with Heather, Amanda or Salwa!  Where To Find Atarah!@AtarahValentine Book a trauma release or other type of session with Atarah!  Our Offerings:Looking To Start Your Membership? - Use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of The Pathway or $20 off any a la carte workshop.A La Carte - Not ready for a membership? Try an individual workshop with 3 months of access.The Basics Bundle - How To Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child & Unblocked ShadowUnblocked Inner Child Unblocked Shadow The Love Bundle - Unblocked Love & Relationships Reflection Mini-WorkshopUnblocked Money The Pathway - 12-month all-access membership includes ALL of our a la cartes + more!How To Manifest, Unblocked Inner Child, Unblocked Shadow, The Love Bundle, Unblocked Money+ The Daily Practice includes our Deep Imagining Library with over 18+ DIs+ Unblocked Boundaries + Unblocked Full Moon+ Uplevel - 3 in 1 includes Rut, Rock Bottom & Next Level workshops+ Monthly Supported Class+ Community Group to connect with fellow manifestors+ Automatic access to any new offering or DI that becomes available as well! Free Offerings to Get You StartedThe MotivationFree Clarity Exercise - Journal prompt + 1 Deep Imagining Expanded Podcast - Manifestation 101  SubmitSubmit to Be a Process GuestLeave a Review 5-star review for a chance to win a 1-year membership to The Pathway 2.0. Then tune into future episodes to hear your review announced! If you win send us a message on Intercom hi@tobemagnetic.com to claim it.