316: How and Why to Talk About Our Sexual Past

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316: How and Why to Talk About Our Sexual Past

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Dec 31, 2021

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Dec 31, 2021

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Helping couples keep it hot! Sex therapist Laurie Watson (author of Wanting Sex Again) and couples counselor Dr. Adam Mathews discuss everything from best sexual techniques and solving sexual problems, to building the emotional intimacy necessary for great sex in your relationship! Subscribe to us today!

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