5: Saying No Without Wounding

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5: Saying No Without Wounding

FromForeplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

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Feb 17, 2016

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Having your desire synced with your partner's may sound ideal, but rare in practice. Find out how to get back in the game when you are not in the mood.

Released:

Feb 17, 2016

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Helping couples keep it hot! Sex therapist Laurie Watson (author of Wanting Sex Again) and couples counselor Dr. Adam Mathews discuss everything from best sexual techniques and solving sexual problems, to building the emotional intimacy necessary for great sex in your relationship! Subscribe to us today!

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