What does it mean to be “good” at sex? Melanie Curtin has built her career around helping people have better sex. As a sex researcher and men’s coach, she believes that sex is something that can—and should—be practiced and perfected. We chat about what men really want from sex, how polyamorous couples find freedom outside the marriage, and how to ratchet up the tension to make sex hotter for everyone. I get real about what was lacking in my sex life, and Melanie shares her dealbreakers in the bedroom.    Support my show by supporting my sponsors!   Start podcasting like a pro! Zencastr is offering 30% off for 3 months! Try them at https://zencastr.com/ and use code HOLLY.   Manscaped is offering 20% off plus free shipping for their NEW revolutionary electric body trimmer the Lawnmower 4.0, just use code HOLLY at Manscaped.com.   Arosur lets you text, call, and video chat with real kink-friendly women excited to explore your fantasies. Get 100 credits for free when you go to arousr.com/holly.   Want more from this podcast? Get access to tons of perks by joining my Patreon! We have exclusive bonus content-- and just added, access to my fine art photos and videos! Get early access to an uncut version of the show and get cool gifts like coffee mugs, stickers, and hoodies. Join our community now at Patreon.com/hollyrandallunfiltered Don't forget you can always email us at hollyrandallunfiltered@gmail.com